Dream Interpretation: Keep dreaming about my first love

by G
(fresno ca)

Visitor's Dream: 'I met my first love over 20 years ago. We really loved each other but when he went to the Marines, we somehow broke up or went our seperate way. He told me one day that he found some one new and so I never wrote to him again. That was the end of us. I never got a chance to say all the things I wanted to say to him.


I am now married with childrens for 20 years. Throughout my whole marriage, i have been thinking about my first love every now and then. I sometimes think about what could of been. Certain time, I think about him all the time. I always dream of him. And in every dream, I know that he is somewhere in the dream but I can't see his face or see him around. In the dream, I am always waiting for him. I have dreams like this every now and then for the last 20 years and it is making me wonder if we were meant to be or not. Most times, my heart miss him so much.

Is this normal? Is it wrong for me to think about him and wanting him or missing him when I am married and happy? I heard that when you dream of someone, turn your pillow over and that person will also dream of you too. Is this true? When I wake up from dreaming of him, I miss him for days. Does this mean he is also thinking of me too? Any help would be appreciated.'

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by: John

Hi G,
Can you please provide the details of your most recent dream featuring your 1st love.
J

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by: Anonymous

Did anyone ever give you any viable information on this matter? I ask because I dream of my ex of 20,years as well and I can't figure out why

does she think of me? NEW
by: jack

I am a 54 year old male and i dream of a beautiful girl i met when i was 12 and moved to tennessee. I knew her thru high school and she always dated above me, but i was in love with her. We were friends and she always had a boyfriend. I never could seem to get in line. 35 years later i dream of her in the most dear way,not as much passionate sex, but true love, almost weekly. I have unstoppable daydreams about her during the day at times thinking what i could or would say if we met again. My wife knows she was a hard girl for me to forget. She lives relatively close to me but i dont reach for her because id never want creep her out. Her husband was a superjock and never really liked me. I have no intention to have a romance as i am a happily married man with a beautiful wife and son. All of which makes me even more crazy that i cant figure this out and why do i dream this, and what does this mean. My last dream was last night. I wonder if she thinks of me?

Dreaming of ex first love NEW
by: Anonymous

I am 25 years old. I also have been dreaming of my first love lately and it's kinda just putting me in a very bad,sad mood in the mornings, I dream where we find eachother again and other dreams just where we bump Into eachother again. I don't want to dream this,cause I'm lost now in my life when it comes to love. It's sad.

First love NEW
by: Anonymous

I dream almost daily about him and think.constantly about him....Can't go into details but it's...Everything...Met him at a reunion few years ago and he is on my FB....I'm not happy in my current marriage and not sure this is related...I really do miss him and know that I married for the wrong reason... What am I to do..I can't stop this.

First love NEW
by: Anonymous

I dream almost daily about him and think.constantly about him....Can't go into details but it's...Everything...Met him at a reunion few years ago and he is on my FB....I'm not happy in my current marriage and not sure this is related...I really do miss him and know that I married for the wrong reason... What am I to do..I can't stop this.

first love NEW
by: Anonymous

I've known my first love for ten years now, going on 11. We were best friends for four years, dated off and on for four, and friends again for a couple years. We have tried cutting off total contact but one of us always comes back, so we have decided to be good friends again this past year. This past year I have also been having crazy dreams about him, it seems once a month. Very random. Some are about feelings for each other, some are kissing or cuddling dreams. My ex, now lives in another state dating a woman. I am single and have been for some time. My ex and I talk often and he has told me he is unhappy in his current relationship and plans on breaking it off. He wants to spend time focusing on himself. I decided to share my dreams with my ex and to my surprise he said he has also been dreaming about me. And is still in love with me. My only question is do these dreams indicate we are meant to be together? or are they simply expressing past feelings we need to overcome in order to move on? They obviously mean something, as I am still deeply in love with this man. He is often, daily, on my mind. And enters my dreams as well.

If only I knew the answers

<3
Peace and love

Childhood love NEW
by: Anonymous

When I was in kindergarten and later on in first grade and to third grade there was a girl that I really loved a lot. We used to hang out after school and either go to her house or mine since we lived fairly near and our parents where friends with each other.

At one point we even wrote love letters to each other, and I fondly remember a picture that she drew witch​ was a image of the world with our names around it and at one point we even talked about marriage.

However things happend and that future never came to pass, she developed feelings for another​ guy and over time we stopped talking or even look at each other's way anymore. I did a lot of stupid things afterwards that did not exactly help things out now that I look back at it and I wish that hadn't done what I did.

We went at the same School for around 9 years,and I always wondered why we parted since I thought of her a lot and once in a while started to look for her. Years passed and I finally contacted her to apologize for the stupid stuff I did towards her when we where younger and told her that I still had feelings for her,yet one thing never gave me peace of mind since when I asked why we stopped caring for eacohter she said we grew apart but never gave me the full reason to why her feelings towards me died off.

And I also promised her to never contact her agian since but by that time I had gotten married and she was seeing someone, so we both decided that we should both move on with our lives and since then I have never heard anything about her yet I still wonder what happened to us and something​ tells me that I will never find the answer for that question.

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