Dream Interpretation: Keep dreaming about my first love

by G
(fresno ca)

Visitor's Dream: 'I met my first love over 20 years ago. We really loved each other but when he went to the Marines, we somehow broke up or went our seperate way. He told me one day that he found some one new and so I never wrote to him again. That was the end of us. I never got a chance to say all the things I wanted to say to him.

I am now married with childrens for 20 years. Throughout my whole marriage, i have been thinking about my first love every now and then. I sometimes think about what could of been. Certain time, I think about him all the time. I always dream of him. And in every dream, I know that he is somewhere in the dream but I can't see his face or see him around. In the dream, I am always waiting for him. I have dreams like this every now and then for the last 20 years and it is making me wonder if we were meant to be or not. Most times, my heart miss him so much.

Is this normal? Is it wrong for me to think about him and wanting him or missing him when I am married and happy? I heard that when you dream of someone, turn your pillow over and that person will also dream of you too. Is this true? When I wake up from dreaming of him, I miss him for days. Does this mean he is also thinking of me too? Any help would be appreciated.'