Kissing My Friend

by Selena
(USA)

I had a dream recently that has gotten me confused and really perplexed by it. It started out with me talking to a couple of boys on different bus rides home, starting with one at the front seat and each and every time I moved further back I had more boys join me until I was in one of the back seats of the school bus talking to these nameless faces and the boy who was sitting besides me was another person I knew from my actual school but I didn't talk to much. Take note that I didn't usually take bus rides home with these nameless faces. Outside looked very dark too... Like the who dream took place during the night and usually when I take bus rides home during the night are from marching band competitions. So I was taking to this group of boys when unknowingly a friend of mine who didn't go to school for the last few months of school got on and grabbed the back of my head and pulled me towards him into a force kiss. At first I tried pushing away but then he stuck his tongue into my mouth and I didn't want to stop. Occastionally I would fight back and pull my head back but with my head in his hand I couldn't. After a few seconds I finally pushed him away and wiped my mouth, panting as I asked him why he had done what he did. He looked mad at me and said with a blush, "BecauseI liked you! I liked you and then I hear that you've been talking to other boys?!" He swung his hand around as if he were presenting all the boys I had talked with, "I care about you and I really like you! I... I'm just done." He got off the bus and I went after him and caught up with him, asking him to talk to me but he wouldn't talk to me. I met up with a couple of my friends and they managed to stop him long enough for us to make a bet that if I got into this sort of fight and I didn't get hit then he had to talk to me again. Whe did the bet and I won and when all of us started to celebrate he chuckled and walked off, into his mothers car and they drove off. Defeated I got into my mother's car and then we headed home. After that I dreamt that I was in this large unrecognizable home and then that me and a couple of friends we going to be in a soccer game. This friend of mine showed up again and he was still ignoring me, plus he was the captian. My face and his face were both unreckognizable to me and then we started to train. After that I don't remember much but waking up in the middle of the soccer game that had different teams. See I wouldn't understand why my friend would kiss me like that, and above all the kiss felt so real even if I've never been kissed or have kissed anyone like that in reality. I used to like him, but I still care about him as a friend and I even talked ot him after a month or two of not seeing him at school only to find out he was being home schooled the last few months. Something was going on but he refused to tell me and told me not to tell anyone that I had seen him. I had told him everything about me at a football game once since we are both in marching band and spent most of out time lost together at disneyworld on a band trip last year. He even pushed me in my wheel chair when my feet had sprained muscles and I couldn't walk fast after our group had ditched me, he stayed behind. He is a good friend, but I don't like him that way anymore... And he would never do something like he had in my dream! What does this mean? I don't remember anything recent that would have triggered this and the last time I saw him was a good two or three months ago. Also, why did the kiss feel so real?

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by: John

Hello,
Before I interpret the theme of these dreams, can you please explain for me what you mean when you say: "I had told him everything about me at a football game once..."

Also, in answer to your question about why the kiss felt so real... what makes you think dreams aren't real? Any person capable of lucid dreaming will tell you how REAL dreams are. I have a patient who has physical marks from her lucid dreams verified by her partner. When you accept dreams a being "real", they take on a whole new meaning.
J

Well...
by: Selena

Basically I had told him about my past with Lupus and the family problem I've had at home. Nowadays I'm more open about my Lupus and my family problems have progressed-- nowadays they've been with my father, but at the time I had this dream I was only open about my Lupus with only close friends and adults that I trust. The same thing goes with the problems I had at home because my parents constantly fight and apparently there had been problems since way before I was born. Now they don't even speak to each other and because of an event that happened my father doesn't speak to me. So yeah. Maybe that helps?

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by: John

Thanks for your reply.
These dreams seem to be about some conflict within you. It appears during the dreams there are certain aspects that suggest you are in two minds all the time about what you want. On the one hand you resist, but on the other you seem to secretly desire what is taking place. Much of what takes place also revolves around you having resisted and then having to 'win' back some sort of attention/affection from the person you desired in the first place. I think the dream may be indicating that what you resists, persists - and if you dont make up your mind when you know you feel positive toward something then that something can fade away.
J

my crush and good tounge NEW
by: madison

I was outside at my school and my crush put his hand on my head and he kissed me it had so much tounge it felt wet and juicy I just couldn't stop, so I put my tounge back in his mouth and we started to make out, it felt like hours had gone by and we just couldn't stop it felt so real,like time had frozen and we were still there kissing.

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